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but like @ this whole issue of tumblr’s lack of historical awareness (in this case, re: the use of the term “queer,” but, let’s face it, there is a huge lack of historical awareness about almost everything on tumblr), it’s not even a question of “this term was deliberately reappropriated by queer people and is a very common neutral term all the way up to its official situation in Queer Studies/Queer Theory.”  If you go back and actually read what queer people were writing about themselves and other queer people, certainly in the early half of the 20th century/prior to the queer rights/gay rights movement there were people using the term “queer” as a casual way of describing themselves and things that were relevant to their experience of non-normative attraction. Example from my own particular area of interest: in 1940, Peter Pears recommends a W. Somerset Maugham novel as “terribly good… & of course the whole thing, in his subtle way, is quite itching with queerness.” When, in 1963, Pears writes to Britten that the two of them are, after all, “queer & left & conshies,” neither “queer” or “conshies” is a radical political statement, but rather a factual description of their orientation/situation in regards to “mainstream” society. 

Christopher Isherwood also used the term “queer” neutrally in his midcentury letters, to describe people he’d met (in 1961, describing Franco Zeffirelli as “queer and quite attractive”) and characteristics and themes (also in 1961: “Frank Wiley, with a friend, just stopped by to deliver the manuscript of his Sta. Barbara campus queer novel”).

And these are off-the-cuff examples that I just happen to be able to pull out and cite without effort. 

Yes, this is true of my particular area of interest as well (e.g. Lytton Strachey, WWI & Bloomsbury), as well. And, as I’m fond of pointing out, George Chauncey’s “Christian Brotherhood or Sexual Perversion?: Homosexual Identities and the Construction of the Sexual Boundaries in the World War I Era” thoroughly documents same-sex-attracted men in Rhode Island in 1919 using “queer” as an umbrella term in a nuanced system of sexual taxonomy:

The [gang of] inverts [within the US Navy in 1919 Newport, Rhode Island] grouped themselves together as “queers” on the basis of their effeminate gender behavior, and they all played roles culturally defined as feminine in sexual contacts [sic]. But they distinguished among themselves on the basis of the “feminine” sexual behavior they preferred, categorizing themselves as “fairies” (also called cocksuckers), “pogues” (men who liked to be “browned,” or anally penetrated), and “two-way artists” (who enjoyed both). The ubiquity of these distinctions and their importance to personal self-identification cannot be overemphasized. Witnesses at the naval inquiries explicitly drew the distinctions as a matter of course and incorporated them into their descriptions of the gay subculture. One “pogue” who cooperated with the investigation, for instance, used such categories to label his friends in the gang with no prompting from the court: “Hughes said he was a pogue; Richard said he was a cocksucker; Fred Hoage said he was a two-way artist…” While there were some men about whom he “had to draw my own conclusions; they never said directly what they was or wasn’t,” his remarks make it clear he was sure they fit into one category or another.

A second group of sailors who engaged in homosexual relations and participated in the group life of the gang occupied a more ambiguous sexual category because they, unlike the queers, conformed to masculine gender norms. Some of them were heterosexually married. None of them behaved effeminately or took the “woman’s part” in sexual relations, they took no feminine nicknames, and they did not label themselves–nor were they labelled by others–as queer. Instead, gang members, who reproduced the highly gendered sexual relations of their culture, described the second group of men as playing the “husbands” to the “ladies” of the “inverted set.” Some husbands entered into steady, loving relationships with individual men known as queer; witnesses spoke of couples who took trips together and maintained monogamous relationships. […]

(The quote goes on from there; the whole essay is fascinating.)

This is one of the first citations in the OED of “queer” as applied to same-sex-attracted people, and it’s plain that it is part of a system of self-definition originating from within queer culture, not without. And the fact that the events Chancey describes were happening in direct response to a culture and reputation that the American Navy had been developing for quite some time, leads me to believe that it’s a safe assumption this terminology existed within queer Navy circles at least back through the early years of the War. 

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pls dont tell people they’re weird because they dont want to be touched, is it really so hard to respect peoples boundaries without alienating them and making them feel self conscious about something that theyre probably already very aware of, just because it’s different to you doesnt mean it’s weird

Also don’t make them explain it. There are lots of different reasons not to want to be touched, and all of them are legit. Your body is your body, their body is their body, nobody has to explain themselves.

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I want to become a tour guide of one of those haunted asylum tours. I’d sort of hunch over in my wheelchair, wrapped in a cloak, greeting the people. They’ll be nudging each other, waiting to hear about the crazies.

I’ll beckon them with a single finger, wheeling backwards, letting the darkness consume me. They’ll follow, inch by inch, already trembling with adrenaline.

We’ll enter the asylum. It will be dark. Gloomy.

“Take your seats,” I say.

They’re confused but comply, feeling in the dark, finally reaching a table. They can’t wait. They have their cameras prepared.

Somebody asks if you can still hear the patients’ screams in the corridors.

“Well,” I say, “you can hear someone’s screams.”

Without warning, the door crashes shut. We hear a lock. People start screaming. Panicking. At that moment, the lights come on. We’re sitting in a lecture hall. I whisk off my cloak to reveal a perfectly tailored suit.

“All right, folks,” I say. “Let’s talk about how every single horrifying event that happened in asylums was a direct result of the doctors and nurses committing medical malpractice rather than the patients themselves, shall we? We’ll start with Rosemary Kennedy. Someone get the lights. I have a PowerPoint.”

I would attend this lecture several times in a row just to watch the audience flinch.

I didn’t think of the history of these tours. I mean people used to pay to walk through Bethlhem, famously deemed Bedlam, where the mentally ill were often chained to the walls and were significantly neglected. (x) The idea that these places now exist for us to visit and roam to hear or see the ghosts of the mentally ill is extremely sick.

If you include:

~The history of lobotomies in the US in the 1930′s (x) 

~The terrifying history of electroconvulsive therapy and the complete disregard for safety measures in the UK once they were implemented(x) 

~The history of forced imprisonment of women in asylums (x)(x)

~The history of forced imprisonment due to dissenting political views(x)

~Compulsory Sterilization (x)

~Then there’s just the general horrifying history of psychiatry and asylums.(x) 

Honestly it’s sickening. I would 100% rather have a lecture about these horrors. Or at least a museum like environment where all of the atrocities committed against the mentally ill are brought to the forefront. 

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New Dazzling Mermaid Crowns Inspired by Ariel by Chelsea Shiels

Twenty-seven-year-old Melbourne-based florist Chelsea Shiels was always keen of composing stunning flower crowns, until she came up with the ingenious idea to construct seashell crows.

She confesses to Cosmopolitan: “I’ve always wanted to be Ariel, under the sea. I’m a real beach bum. That was where my obsession with the sea and shells came from.

The royal and bohemian crows are inspired by the rustic beauty found under the sea, its aquamarine colors and the glittering hidden treasures we wish to find in the ocean’s depth. Find them in their Request your custom made mermaid crown in her Etsy shop.

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berksome:

a happy couple might’ve gotten married today 

someone might’ve kissed their best friend and realized they are gay today

someone might’ve found out they were officially cancer free today

someone might’ve finally finished their debut novel today 

lots of interesting things might’ve happening today 

we should celebrate 

you’re the kind of person everyone needs in their lives

we need more positivity on this hellsite

In fact I can just about guarantee that somewhere out there all of these things did happen today.

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wentdog:

JUST FUCKING STOP ALREADY WITH THE PUMPKIN SPICE BULLSHIT

I have a way to make it stop

but you must buy all of those pumpkin spice hot cocoas and mail them to me

do not ask questions for this is the way it has been for generations

the pumpkin season has started.

i grow stronger.

tbh I thought about it for .0027 seconds and I really do feel stronger during pumpkin spice season! when I thought about *how* that strength feels I immediately associated with how it feels when women win/I am overcome with feminist pride and I just realized….

while a dislike of the flavor of pumpkin spice is valid and likely exists, expressing that dislike smashed into the mainstream (almost becoming meme-like) as a reaction to teenage girls fawning over it. it wasn’t “this flavor sucks why do people do this” like with kale. but “UGH, that THING again!” which leads me to believe hating pumpkin spice isn’t about the flavor whatsoever. rather, it’s the fact that this thing is mostly enthusiastically consumed by girls/women. and when stores start stocking up on pumpkin spice-flavored/scented items, it becomes an inescapable reminder of girls/women (specifically) unabashedly enjoying something. even though those same stores stuff themselves with Halloween/thanksgiving things at least a month before pumpkin spice starts to hit the shelves, the groans over seasonal stock is treated with far less aggressive anger and more of a resigned observation: “it’s July 6th and my store is setting up a Halloween display. wtf.”

so my passion for pumpkin spice isn’t for the flavor itself - you can get pumpkin pie seasoning for super cheap any time of year and sprinkle that in your coffee machine’s basket to get a ‘pumpkin spice’ flavored coffee drink any time, but I don’t cuz it’s not that crucial to my existence. instead, my passion for pumpkin spice hinges on the fact that it is a symbol of the undeterred unity of women and girls, specifically, centered around this single, totally harmless thing.

pumpkin spice brings girls together and unites us under this cute pumpkiny umbrella, and that’s why I love it and become stronger when it is in season. the louder you cry about pumpkin spice, the stronger our female unity becomes.

lmao

Also I really want that hot chocolate mix now.

I agree with the long bit above because while I don’t like the flavour, the only thing that boggles me more than why so many people love pumpkin spice is why it BOTHERS so many people that so many people like it.

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Her feet dangle over the edge, soft skin upon smooth tile, toes dipping into the cool water. The chlorine has filled her nostrils and is near intoxicating, a thick heady smell that tastes of victory and death. Her piercing gaze catches the other swimmers’ through wet lashes, gracing over their lithe, streamlined bodies. She is their captain, head of the swim team, and will show off her gala medals like war trophies for all to see.

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230. Four Apocalyptic Horsemen with No Horses

i. he was the winning contender in the mma ring, the head of a fortune 500, he stood at the front of the classroom and was the ace in a game of dodgeball

ii. she was the street fighter with bloodied knuckles, the one who took too many shots at the bar, she danced on rooftop edges and shattered glass with her screams

iii. she starved with the crows at the corner shop, apples rotted at her feet, she huddled behind the dumpster and whined, but she danced in the derelict streets

iv. he was the car that sped and he pushed that pot that off the balcony, he was the one that moved the manhole cover and was the knife in the mugger’s hand

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